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Watch Jackie and Jodi in Extended Video Footage from “Try It On Everything” Eliminating Issues of Perfectionism, Abuse, Hurt, Self Love and More
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Raffle Contest:
Thanks everyone for the roughly 600 posts we received on the first giveaway! We read every single one!!!
Here’s how we did the raffle: We took the total number of posts at midnight last night (593) and went to google to find a “random number generator. ” We asked for a random number between 1 and 593 and the number that came up was 2! So we counted down to the 2nd post (I know…lucky for us it wasn’t a large number) and we found our winner. The winner of the raffle for the session with Carol Look is…
Ann Kewley
Here’s what Ann wrote in her post: I injured a shoulder muscle last January 2009. It is still very painful now, six months later. I have tapped daily since then, on every aspect I can think of that would cause this pain to not go away. I have also been to an acupuncturist and to the physiotherapist. Neither of these guys could get the pain to go away either. So I’m sure there must be a large emotional component here. I would love to be able to tap this problem away as it is becoming chronic now.
Congratulations Ann! We’ll get in touch with Carol shortly and figure out how to set up the session and then we’ll email you. Thanks everyone!
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Wow, what a great video. A friend of mine introduced me to tapping when I pinched a nerve in my neck. That has been a cronic problem for me for years. It was a revelation to see how much emotional content that one little nerve contained.
I have now been tapping for all kinds of things, though they have been pretty serface oriented. This video has really shown me just how deep I can really go, to start really dealing with issues that are being compounded by my ignoring them.
I am in the midst of a Spinal Decompresson therapy, for two herniated disks, the tapping has really helped me deal with fear and depression about the thought of loosing my mobility.
My husband and I also did a little experiment with it, I tend to carry stress in my neck, and have sometimes found that saying tap tap tap in my head has helped stop distructive thoughts. We did this in tandem of him massaging my neck and me tapping in my head on the things that washed up from that…. OMG it was so wonderful to be able to relinquish that stress and give him that trust.
You are doing wonderful work and thank you for sharing so very much of it with us.
Blessings
I am not able to play any of the videos on your webiste. Any advise?
Thank you.
Eve
Hi Eve,
How does it show up on your computer? What happens when you press play? Do you have internet explorer, firefox or another web browser?
Thanks.
Alex Ortner
it was very moving to see jackie and jodi reliving such painful memories; but wonderful to see them rid themselves of the awful weight of them, with Carol’s expert guideance. Brilliant.
I work with a lot of perfectionism in my sports, especially baseball clients — this gave me a lot of new angles. Thank you.
I find perfectionism very common in “yips” issues (www.YipsBeGone.com)
Thank you, looking forward to more.
I’m in awe how many have has similar experiences, I could feel the tensions building, the memories surfacing just watching the video Eliminating Issues of Perfectionism, Abuse, Hurt, Self Love and More. I can tell I’ll be watching and tapping with it many more times.
This is wonderful, to be able to watch a great EFT’er at work. Its inspiring for me as a practitioner and trainer. Well done for bringing this to us. Many, many thanks.
XXX
That was amazing!! For me it was mother issues so I changed the words. I’ve always been a perfectionist because I was an invisible middle child. I had some major releases. This is one I am passing on to many of my clients (I am a holistic nutritionist)who still struggle with these issues.
Carol, Jackie and Jodi,
Thanks for this. I could really relate to Jackie’s story. I was also from a large family and had to watch my dad beat and humiliate my 4 brothers.. usually at the dinner table. So many things she said were familiar to me.. the spilled drink and how upset he would get over that.. throwing the boys across the room.. jeeze, do you think there’s some kinda school out there “how to beat your kids” where these guys learned the same techniques?
I deeply appreciate your sharing. You are not alone! I’m going to keep taping on this until it’s gone and I wish you both well also!
with love and gratitude.
Carol is brilliant. I have done Carols classes and teleconferences and to my surprise from this viedo came a huge amount of unresolved issues of being invisible as well as isolating myself but also being a trash can and being dumped on. GUILT was huge during this video for me. (I have never cried during one of the classes but this brought many tears) Is it possible on a cellular level to be born with guilt feelings ? (from not being wanted, or it was my fault I was conceived?) My onion has been peeled away, layer after layer and is now getting to the very center of the core and I would like it resolved. I seem to be stuck
Thanks Jessica and Nick for being so awesome and passionate with your work. Carol, I have the utmost respect and admiration for you. Also to those who participated in the viedo and sharing their experiences with us. Great work !
I watch this video several times because it reminded me of my childhood and everything that I have tucked away.
I tapped along with the video and realized that it helped me a lot.
I have been doing tapping för just a couple of weeks, and I am amazed at how fast this helps you.
So thanks for all the participants in the video, for sharing their stories so that we that watches can get help to.
Thank you so much – it´s wonderful to see them let go their issues. And I´m letting go, too…! Thank you!!!
Ulla
I love watching Carol work. She has such a finely developed intuition and is a master at navigating the layers of the issue. Thanks for sharing this video!
I don’t understand why everyone else was tapping and repeating what was not their issue – was someone elses…
Merci! really enjoyed this video…lots of issues from my past came up…ended up tapping loads
amazing how support from fellow tappers makes such a big difference !!!
be well !
While was watching the video and going through the tapping with them I realized that I too was considered perfect when I was young but rebelled against it and felt like I was fooling my parents. Today I’m living on a small pension and unable to find work. I just realized that I was afraid of not being perfect at any job I might get. This has stopped me from making more money and the tapping with the video made me understand this. Thank you so much for making these tapping exercises available, they are invaluable!
Watching the video and reliving the experiences of Jackie and Jodi brought a lot of issues to the surface about my father and my childhood.
It gave me a greater understanding of my attachment to my mother and my pain regarding my emotionally absent father.
Great video. Really helps us see how experiences we had as children are in our subconscious and running our lives. Great to see a master such as Carol do what she does. It demytifies the process, and let’s you see that we have all the answers within, just need to quit denying their importance.
Wow that was so powerful. I have been using eft now for several years with amazing results and know the need to contantly tap on issues.
I can honestly say that it saved my life. I share this now so that other people can see that they can get over and through stuff. About 5 years ago my ex hit me so hard I thought I was going to die. I then had a family of brothers take his side and my own mother. That was a tough call as they liked him. It’s taken me a few years and even though recently my elder brother said “I killed my father” as my marriage ended and had brought shame upon the family! I am at a point in my life where I know it was their stuff and not mine.
My mother recently revealed to me that she had had me so she didn’t have to go to work and as a small child I felt invisible even striving to play Volleyball for England and studying to be a teacher and then being the perfect adult and then the perfect wife.
Today I stand as a woman alone but very much in her own power poised to take on the rest of her life and have helped to build an orphanage in Nepal and taught thousands of children to meditate and to be noticed.
I can now see why I became a teacher I followed the career of someone who noticed me.
I have shared all that in the hope that it helps someone realise that you have this day from now to dream your life into being and you can indeed look forward.
When you sort yourself nothing can harm you. It’s the story you tell yourself.YOu can’t change other people but you can sure change yourself!
With love and blessings to Carol Look and Mary Ayres who taught me all the eft. I am building my website http://www.sallyfrancis to connect with all the fabulous souls I have met who have inspired me.
Be everything you ever dreamed of being.
Love Sally x
Although I have been tapping for 4-5 months, this hit home again. The abuse was from my Mom and in the form of mental and emotional. One of the main things that rang a bell was being invisible!!! I remember doing that in high school and I still do it one way or another. I was taught to be seen and not heard and not to speak unless spoken to. So I became very shy and invisible. I found another way to become invisble and that is to gain enough weight that people don’t even look at me,let alone talk to me! They for sure do not listen to me until I get MAD! That takes awhile because I was taught not to express negative emotion too.
I think the ladies had a lot of courage telling their story!
I tapped along with the sessions and some issues came up for me also. I definitely feel that EFT is a wonderful tool and it is so easy to do and share with others.
Thanks again for sharing this video I am very grateful. I also love Carol and Jessica and the professional manner.
To our health
hi,
i’d love to be able to view the video but was only able to view jessica’s intro. themain part with the 2 ladies mentioned did not appear. i have internet explorer and never had a problem before. thanks c
Thank you very much for sharing this video with me. I am very new to EFT, and this was actually the first time that I persuaded myself to “tap along”. It also brought some childhood memories into my mind, which I think I should start tapping on. I have over the years “taught” myself to keep a straight face whatever happened, and I guess it will take time for me to get over that. But with the backup of all you kind EFTers (in my mind) I am sure, that I will eventually be able to help friends in my neighbourhood, especially the elderly in our local seniors’ home. That is really my great wish.
Best wishes
hello, the problem is resolved with my being able to view the main video. this time when i scrolled down a little the video was there and opened. maybe there was just a delay in it showing up before as all of the comments were there initially as well + now. thanks c
I am so grateful you are making this available to me. I am learning so much from watching Dr Look in action.I am working on the belief I have had for decades that being fat keeps me safe. Thank you!!
Beautiful women,
Thank you. This is sacred work, and is work we all have to do to be free, and I always forget about the tapping aspect. Watching you do your work, and watching the way the work was led, reminded me and taught me simultaneously.
Thank you so much for posting this!
This was a great insightful tape and stirred a lot of emotion in me. At one point I felt so weak I thought I could not lift my arms. At another time, I remembered my own childhood hurt by my mother and while it hurt, I was also enraged at the complete lack of logic involved in expecting so much of a child. Children are to be taught, not automatically punished for not knowing what they have never been told. All my mom taught me in her stern expectations of me was that I was not worthy. In later years I learned that my mother had always been jealous of me and this was even announced by my father to me in a public place after an incident. I was shocked but it was a great revelation. But at the same time I felt sad that she had abused me when we could have been close. Carol has a true talent in being able to unearth core issues.
Thank you.
Wow, this video was so helpful for me. I’ve watched it a couple of times already, and will definitely watch it at least a few more times. I can completely relate to the “I have to be perfect or he won’t love me” scenario.
The worst perpetrator of this in my life was my ex-husband. I got the message early into our marriage that I had to be perfect, and I’m still carrying that theme even though we divorced long ago and I’ve been happily married to a *wonderful* man for over 15 years.
I am currently trying to understand why I have a problem with weight since this didn’t erupt in my life until adulthood. As I tapped through the session above, I flashed back to an incident in my previous marriage where my ex berated me for not being thin like another woman in church. At that point, I weighed about 165 pounds–only 25-30 pounds more than recommended for my height and body type. The woman he compared me to was probably anorexic because looking back now, she was far too thin and a totally different body type than me.
What he was asking was completely unrealistic, but I was too intimidated to question his authority. Now I feel like such a fool for ever having believed him in the first place. He wasn’t exactly Mr. Olympia himself. He was lying and manipulating me for his own purposes.
When I finally kicked him out of the house, I snatched the cudgel from his hand but kept it to keep beating myself up. My current husband won’t criticize me, so I have to do that myself. How stupid is that???? So all sorts of interesting things are surfacing, but with EFT, I feel confident that I have some tools to get through them.
Interesting video, it gave me ideas on how to word some personal issues. No one was beaten in my household, however I had been spanked a few times and there were other times that my mother would threaten me (like talking all of my barbie dolls away if I did not keep me room perfectly clean (and I was under 8 years old). Also there were other instances where if I did not do something exactly as my mother said, then it was always followed with a threat, Fill in the blank ______would get me if I did ______. So there was always the if I did not conform, obey, I would be hurt.
Again thanks for ideas to tap on.
When I watched “Try It On Everything” the one thing I wanted to see more of was the participants actually going through tapping sessions. So, to be able to see this session, where I could tap along (another invisible middle child here!) on my own perfectionist issues was great! I personally resonated more with Jodi’s story, but I still tapped along with Jackie as well.
Anyway, thank you for making this available to us, and I would love to see more sessions!
This was an awesome video….I was very surprised while watching it to see how it brought up so much emotion in me with some similar issues, however I didn’t really get to the core issue I don’t think, but just to be able to address some of it was great. Thank you so much for putting this together and making it available to so many. Many thanks also to Carol Look for giving her time to continue to support this arena and for the gifts that she brings. She is such a great facilitator and I love to watch her navigate through the issues so easily to bring about such great results. She has such a natural gift and talent for being able to intuit her way right to the core of each person’s issue and wipe it away. Blessings to all.
Great video! Really cuts through so much of the issue around perfectionism!
I am a career and life coach and I see much value in using this approach with clients who are having courageous challenges when they go for the career they want!
I also grew up with a very negative mother and so I tapped along with the video substituting father for mother.
Thanks for all you’re doing!
Thank you so much! I will be listening to this many more times. The power a critical disapproving parent has over a small child is SO often abused — to the child it really feels like life-or-death if she doesn’t comply. When I was little there was no room for me to have any desires of my own. I had to be the perfect little robot, doing everything my mother wanted or might want, a fast as possible, to even be tolerated & not screamed at, so of course I grew up very jumpy & nervous. Thank you again — you are doing very important work.
Kudos ladies on this wonderful demostration of EFT. You have touched me deeply with your willingness to be so vulnerable in order to help us all. I tapped along with you and had major releases myself as I share many of the same issues and will continue to do more. Just wanted to say thank you again so very much. You are very brave and beautiful souls and many will be helped with this. May God Bless each of you..
This was very helpful. It brought up a lot of memories from my past. I was able to release them as I tapped along. Thank you so much.
I have hernia that I am fighting against, and hope that this will help.
Thanks for this opportunity!
Wow, blessings to all in this video and to those that have shared it on this site. Like others have stated we love watching Carol’s masterful use of EFT, I’m in awe. And how brave of Jackie and Jodi for being so visible with their process.
Thanks for sharing this video and on such a universal subject as being at the effect of perfectionism.
BLessings!
that was pretty amazing… thank you… got a thing or two to work through there!
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THAT WAS AMAZING THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
I enjoiged very much the video, it s wonderfull how you feel much better taking out negative emotions. you clean with this tecnich your emotional body. Just wonderfull. Thankkyou veery much for sharing this video.
This was a very interesting video. I am new to the EFT and so it was very helpful to see how it was actually done to address the issues. How brave of Jackie and Jodi to have brought their issues to light. Thank you for sharing this video.
EFT is an amazing tool which anyone can use to help themselves. I thank Jackie and Jodi for allowing us to share their experiences. It is through sharing that we learn how to help ourselves if we do not have access to an experienced practitioner. And thank you Carol Look for demonstrating how a compassionate and intuitive approach to finding core reasons for distress can be so successful. I was tapping right along…. and I shall continue to tap for my wellness and spread the word about its worth.
Good Video! Thanks to the brave women! I come from a very dysfunctional family. I don’t think I’m a perfectionist (even though I’m a Virgo). I felt that I was not worthy enough, deserving, lovable, loving, – well it’s time to tap. I love this program!!! Linda
Thanks Nick, Carol & Jessica.
This is Amazed with this Sesion of tapping and Lot of Thing are Clear in My Life after this sesion
Really Thanks
Hasan
Thank you Thank You! This extended session was incredibly helpful. Being able to tap through the rounds with these two women (and the group) helped me to focus more on my own feelings of abandonment and how I too have sought perfection as a way to protect myself.
Many many thanks to Jackie and Jodie for being so open and honest about their pain during this session and many thanks to Carol for showing how gentle and liberating EFT can be. As a practitioner I tap along with every session I can, regardless of the subject, not only because of ‘borrowing benefits’ but also because so often issues being tapped on resonate with us and trigger memories that need to be cleared.
Love and best wishes to everyone.
Really great video…very helpful to see how others are tapping. Thanks so much for this!
Wonderful Video.
Perfection is such a major issue for most women.
They feel that they must be good little girls, look great, and obey authorities.
It is still embedded in women’s brains. This revelation by Jodi and Jackie is universal. They certainly helped uncover the issues that so many women are facing.
This was awesome, and brought up thoughts I had not consiously thought of as being related to “desease to please” and perfecftionism issues. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you SO much for publishing this. More! More! Although I love your movie, and it is inspiring to get people to, indeed, “Use it on everything,” I was disappointed that the movie didn’t have more detail like this clip. Wow, how valuable. Love what you guys are doing. I get something out of every single thing you publish. And Carol Look is really, really good at what she does.
This video brought up a lot of issues I have with my mother. It helped me identify some things I had not realized before. Very helpful. Carol Look is just brilliant the way she is able to put into words quickly and work on whatever the problem is that comes up. The wording is hard for me, and to get the root of the problems. This helped a lot. Thanks
I am filled with gratitude for this video. Blessings to Jackie and Jodie for being brave and courageous enough to open up and let us eaves drop on their issues. I come from a large family 7 boys and 3 girls. I was # 6 on the list. My mother was mentally ill and my father emotionally unavailable, sexually molested by older brothers, who put in my head that if I told mother, I would be severly punished. A four yr old understands that when she has never been protected. She tries very hard to be perfect to avoid punishment.This video uncovered a core that I was unable to identify before. No wonder my business suffers. I am not perfect yet. I will revisit this video often until I get to a “0″ Thanks again to Dr. Carol. I love how she navigates to find the path to the core of things. I feel hopeful.
Thank you for showing this video. I admire Carol’s skill to work with these people while having the control to follow through with the exercises while not allowing their painful memories to divert her attention from attending to their needs. To Jackie and Jodie I admire your courage to speak openly about such difficult times, and may you enjoy many happier days ahead.
This is amazing to have someone lead tapping on such emotional issues! I have been tapping for a short time and something more always comes up. Who will I be when I am no longer afraid? That will be exciting to see…Thank you is too small for the gratitude I feel.
It does take A LOT of courage to tell your truths out loud. So many of us have similar issues & feelings & its amazing to hear it out loud from another. Thank you for sharing this video.
This video has pinpointed some of my issues, and I’m feeling much better after having tapped along with it. Thanks for all of your help Carol and Nick and Jessica.
And thank you Jackie and Jodi for your courage. You benefit so many people by being your truthful, beautiful selves.
I was already familiar with Jackie and Jodi from the dvd “Try It on Everything” and thought what a clever way for Carol Look to make this short video for us to “Borrow Benifits” with their childhood issues. I’m sure it will help many who tap along with them.
When I watched this, I didn’t realize how much it would be true for me. It made me become consciously aware of my own perfectionism. It got me thinking of my reasons for trying all these years to be perfect. It brought up memories of my own childhood issues.
I am very curious how this can actually work. I have tapped a little and will continue. Just talking things out loud to another or to the air around me has been a great benefit, especially if they “allow” me to have my emotions, but to “release it” is the difficulty. Too often we hold on to it in order to have the “sympathy” or love that can come after you’ve been allowed to be weak. It becomes a game! I know I have done it and am tired of it. It keeps me “weak” so others can rescue me with their love. I am willing to try this and see if it will lessen my cravings for attention, of worthiness, of just wanting to be significant to someone else, to ridding loneliness. I know it can be hard to be so open about the past, especially abusive pasts. Mine was abusive in a verbal way,and with no outward showing of loving emotions, so I know where to begin.
I want to tap in order to feel secure, brave enough to dare to be successful, to trust that I can become better and significant to others.
Wow! Who knew, it would affect me the way it did, I am a perfectionist, but didn’t come about being one the way these ladies did, but it opened my eyes up to I need to do some tapping on this issue, I have been working very hard over the last several years to be less of one. Thankyou ladies for opening up and helping others!
A lot of this I believe are my core issues. I was just sobbing through it all. I have an appointment with an EFT therapist for help in working through it.
I have been using EFT for a few years and can see that I have a long way to go. Thanks for sharing.
WOW.
I had some amazing aha moments while watching this video.
I have all these same issues, some of the details differ but the core issues are exactly the same. I had some major realizations that have added to me understanding the reasons i am a perfectionist.
I too grew up in a house without Love that was mainly about fear, abandonment, and that is why i try to control everything and constantly try to prove my value and worth to try and get love and approval (Mother issues)and not upset or anger anyone (father issues) and feel wanted or needed (biological father issues). I have know that the rejection/abandonment of my biological father and the rejection/unloving/hurtful ways of my mother were a cause but I never thought about the beatings or responsibilities that were placed on me from my father. it is shocking to know how much our parents experiences as children gets passed on and how much it screws us all up. Thank you for offering such great resources to help us get to our problems and helping us deal with them so that the destructive patterns can be broken and we can hopefully live better and more loving, fulfilling lives.
Hi I loved it it brought up issues growing up with my mother I am a litte sisappointed that i did not get chosen for a session with Carol cause here i am at 55 and i am still a little stuck but i guess noone in weatern Australia gets chosen. keep uop the good work.
god bless
Well, I know about beatings and perfectionism … from a little different angles than these ladies, but it sure brought up memories and things I’ll be tapping on in the future!! Thanks to everyone it took to get this video here and thanks for sharing!!
Sorry about the errors sent it before i checked it i hope you can understand it. Rosemary
Thank-you!…I feel truly grateful for the use of this information to help myself. As it has brought up issues for me and this was a blessing!…The more I continue to use eft,I realize how much I need to do this for myself everyday. I want to be those women that were shown today and begin to truly live,NOW!…Thank-you
Dear Jackie and Jodi,
Thanks for sharing this video with us all.
Your stories sure do bring me back to my childhood; of being invisible, of trying so hard to be perfectly good, of being so responsible for my younger siblings, and of being humiliated.
It is valuable for us to tap along, as it pulls hidden issues into view.
I’ll use this video more than once!
I was blessed to have a safe, peaceful family in which to grow up. However, I followed along with the tapping and found an interesting train of memories that helped me identify a pattern of perceived inadequacy and the desire to be invisible so no one would see what an inadequate person I was.
Being invisible has been at war with the rest of me that is joyful, intelligent, humorous and more outgoing than I allowed myself to express. I imposed strict limitations on myself, in part, because of misperception.
Thanks to these courageous women for sharing their difficult and painful memories and to Carol for helping them (and me) expand into new levels of peace and positive growth.
Thank you all for bringing this video to so many people. Thank you to Jackie and Jodi for their willingness to share this publicly. For me I had an 18 year marriage to an alcoholic who became abusive in the last few years. Primarily verbally but I worried for our young son’s safety. This was very helpful for me. I had started to address these issues with EFT and some forgiveness techniques but because I didn’t have the expertisse there were issues or aspects I had missed. Thank you.
i have been introduced to tapping in the past however the interview was most helpful in observing the shifts in both women
this help me see and better understand the importance of clearing and using the tapping method
the questions provided are most helpful since this is the area i struggled most in identifying what i was feeling and where it was coming from
thank you again for your courage and sharing with us
Namaste
jeanne
Dear Carol,
Thank you for this interview.
I especially love the idea of Gratitude Tapping!
Now I know about your newsletter and website, as well.
I may as well just cancel the cable… there’s so much more interesting information to explore online!
I know I am not reaching anywhere mear my full potential in personal and professional areas of my life as everything has to be perfect or I don’t even give it a try. I sabotage relationships before they get a chance to see that I am not perfect, because my marriage broke up when I was physically abused one night, when dinner wasn’t ready on time. Nothing I ever did at work or around the home was good enough. So much of my time was spent making sure everything was to his satisfaction to get approval and some praise. I am the middle child of a very doted on older sister as she had hearing problems and was the quiet one and then a very doted on five years younger brother. I love them both very much, but my mother has and still does protect my now 56 year old sister, as she did while we were growing up. Hence I came out being the competent one that could and did do everything. I was the successful one in business and then had to keep this up as it got recognition. The story is endless. APPROVAL is the key word. Be perfect at what you do and how you keep your house etc etc or don’t do it at all! That has become my moto.
My ex and I worked together in our business and as the up front person I was subjected to a lot of criticism. I have suffered from migraine and tension headaches for over 30 years and I know that they are a result of always having to do this perfectly.
This has prevented me from having a go at a new business venture and instead I have chosen to accept a disability pension and not even try to put myself out on a limb…in case I fail. So I just don’t try for fear of failure in other peoples eyes as much as my own…if not more so.
Then I get embarrassed in front of my youngest son because I feel pathetic for not doing anything he can be proud of, as he knows I used to do a lot of things and now I just stay at home. He is doing so well and has a go at everything. I am so proud of him and so ashamed of the bad example I am setting.
I know deep down this is stupid when I see others very confidently performing there jobs in what I would consider to be mediocre/average and they are very happy with thei performance. I so wish I could be just as satisfied. As a mother I put in 110% and am still critical of my efforts. I don’t want my son to end up feeling that unless he is perfect he has failed.
I must start tapping.
Thank you for this amazing video.. I felt how brave these two women were with Carol. Blessings
Thank you so much for sharing this video. Jodi and Jackie, what a special gift to work with Carol Look! My issue is perfection also, and it is so helpful to see others working thru this issue. My big difficulty is finding the right words to say—perfectionism???? I really enjoyed the movie but was glad to see some more in depth tapping on specifics! Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Jackie and Jodi, thank you so much for sharing a little piece of you. As always listening to your story was very timely; it triggered some issues that are causing me some grief at present and thanks to you both, I know how I can tap to resolve my issue or certainly will get help to difuse it.I most grateful to Nick for making this video available to everyone.Blessings to you all.
When Jodi told the story of her Dad coming home and ignoring her – I burst into tears! I guess I have some issues there :- ]
A big thanks to Jodi and Jackie – your courage and dignity is inspiring.
@Rosemary – you’re in luck – WA is the home to one of Australia and the world’s leading exponents of EFT – Steve Wells.
What brave ladies! Thanks you all so much for sharing that session with us. I also learnt from Carol that I can be much more challenging in my counselling when I am using tapping. Carol is such an intuitive guide in the session, i feel I could learn a greata deal from her.
Sandy
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Hi guys, I am a EFT practitioner here in Western Australia and I am passionate about getting the magic of EFT out in this part of the world. Lately I having been confronted on taking EFT to the next level and surprise surprise I have noticed a drop in the number of my clients.
After watch your inspiring video I am back on the horse and ready to go.
Thanks for your inspiration ladies and you can count on me to keeping EFT alive and growing on this neck of the woods. Would love to hear you feedback so you can contact me through EFTWA.com.au
Take Care
Dave O Neill
I thought it gave me a good feel for approaching the different aspect issue. I found it difficult to detach myself from their lives and approach it for the teaching moment that the vedio provided. Thank you
Hi Everyone!
Jodi here. This brought back a lot of memories…of the time we spent together at Clear Point Center. Yes, Dr. Carol Look is amazing, and I am deeply indebted to her for her brilliant work. I know my family was really, really happy to see me release the perfectionism issue as well. LOL As I work with my own clients, I see this come up often, and now I know what to look for. Just as Dr. Look said, it seems perfectionism is very, very often tied to safety.
I think it is great that you chose to release more of the footage, Nick/Jess, because there are so many questions answered by doing so.
As for all of you who have been so kind in your words to me, I thank you. I’m doing great and continue to sing the praises of my TIOE experience. Tapping works. I encourage you all to keep it up so you, too, will finally clear out what doesn’t work and replace it with all that does. Love to each and all!!
How many of us come from disfunctional families and how sad that we carry
all this with us for so many years. Rather than be perfect, I tried to be
invisible — to escape a more intimate kind of terror! After I somehow
found the strength to stop what was happening to me, I was threatened and lived in fear of some terrible repercussion — which thankfully never happened, but kept me from building any self esteem. Never put it all
together until now.
Hi Chrissy,
What happens when you try to play the video? Let me know and maybe we can figure it out!
Alex Ortner
P.S. – Thanks everyone for the posts. We read EVERY one of them. I wish we could answer many of the questions right now but we’re working REALLY hard to get you more really cool bonuses before the club opens on the 12th. Hopefully we’ll be able to get back to many of these questions soon. Thanks. We love the comments and your support!
Excellent. Wonderful to see specific application by a professional. Will be helpful to a novice (who has purchased DVD’s and manuals) because it goes so much further than the generic material included there.
Thanks. Please post on you website so we can access this video again.
This was truly amazing – and hit me right where I live! Perfectionism & self-esteem have been huge issues for me my whole life. They’re getting better with tapping, tho!
Jackie & Jodi, thank you so much for being willing to share your deepest emotions with so many! Carol, bless you & the staff for your work & for bringing this wonderful healing technique to the world!
Tap on!
A BIG thankyou to both Jackie and Jodie for sharing their stories with all of us. It’s because of people sharing that we are all here! I love EFT and have been using it for only a short time. I have ongoing sessions with a professional EFT therapist and love every minute of them! Thankyou to Nick and Jess for sharing so much information with us!
Keep it coming!!
Thank you Carol for showing us your way to do Eft. Your questions are very clear and right to the point, no wonder you get such good results!
Jodi and Jackie, thank you for sharing your stories. I had the most loving father that anyone can have. I can’t even imagine the pain you have been through. You have been very brave in your lives and I’m very happy to see your success with EFT.
How interesting this was, to watch the process and how each one came to find some resolution . . . I have been stagnant for too many years, still holding on to the issues between my father & I, even though he has been deceased for 20 years! It is amazing to me the things we hold so deep. My father had come from abuse, his defense was to withdraw emotionally and physically, and his weapon of choice were his words. The things he ingrained in our heads cut just as sharply as a blade, and caused much damage . . . far more than he ever knew, as I was not brave enough to speak my mind to him before he died.
I am new to this, but am pleased to have found this venue. Kudos to the women who have shared so much of themselves to show others a path to healing! Thank you for being so brave!!
Thanks so much to each person who played their part in bringing us this insightful video to us. Nick, Jessica, Carol, Jodi, Jackie & those behind the scenes. As a practitioner, it is wonderful to have such quality teaching.
Thank you Jackie and JOdi for being generous,courageous and willing to share with us your life experience. It was great to see the relief both ladies got out of the brief session. Tap on! Thanks to Jess and Nick too. I do have a question. I have been tapping on my eyesight problems(short and long sighted, tires easily) for several months but got no better. I got other issues/blocks to zero but no this one. I wonder where/what is not working??
Hi!
Thank you for this great behind the scenes video from ‘Try it on everything’ I have the movie, am an EFT practitioner and hve been using EFT extensively for several years with magical results. I love the clarity and focus of Carol Look’s work and have several of her audio and book tapping resources. This was a great and useful segment and I appreciate it greatly..
Happy tapping release and peace to all..
I really enjoyed this vidio of Jackie and Jodi doing EFT. I have watched the Try It On Everything video and wished there would be more
tapping footage. I am currently going to an EFT therapist here in the phoeniz arizona area for my weight problem. I could really relate to the tapping sequences and I feel I learn alot from listening to them. Carol’s wording is so good and I think that is so important. I am very hopeful that EFT will help me in my life even though I am older than all of the participants ! My brother says: ” That happened 70 years ago and you are still thinking about it! ” If only everyone could understand that most of our behavior and emotional issues go back a long ways! I think EFT is nothing less than totally amazing!
Thank you to each one of you! Even though I had heard Carol say that we need to feel safe several times, it did not really reach all the way down until i watched and tapped along. I remembered several incidences where I expressed a feeling, and I was shamed and humiliated as a result. No wonder I had started to cut myself off from feelings -
I had known this intellectually, as a result of much more or less conveneitonal therapy, but it did not sink down until just a few minutes ago, with much sadness, then relief, yawning and now gratitude.
As an EFT practitioner myself I foudn the way Carol kept on ‘peeling’ the onion skins away very helpful to watch -
I have experienced Carol in London and in Galway in person – and she is way more than hihgly skilled and truely gifted.
With gratitude, also to the Ortner clan
A very big thank you for sharing this video footage with us. I am a buddhist who chants to clear a lot of neagtive emotions from my life and to raise my own energy levels. but , when I saw this video I realised why I was blocking my own success in life and where it really came from. I also found it so very useful as I see that it is also affecting my own daughter who besides being a perfectionist is also trying to be invisible by being fat, even though she is stunningly attractive.
I hope we can both clear our negative blocks and move on to being well adjusted and happy.
The comments below the footage are equally useful as it helps us to see that we are not different and that many share the same problems as us.They give us hope.
Thank you,
Ratna.
Entering the private world of clients is a sacred place and a great example of love. Thank you all, warmly.
Thank you for this video! It was very useful watching the full session, as in the film only parts of this session was played – now I could feel it much better, and tap along and borrow benefits. I also realized, that perfectionism might be one of my patterns as well, although earlier I thought of it as normal and even desirable.Nice to see Carol Look at work – so easy and natural – AND effective
Thanks again,
agi
Wow video is amazing ,evn though I never suffered violence I was never hugged or verbally encouraged .That really shifted a lot of feelings .Think I spent so much of my life looking for approval,from others.My Mother never said how well i was doing it was always other people were doing well. Thank you so much.
I was aware that I had fears around being embarrassed and of becoming successful in my life, I just never realised how deep those fears were and where they came from. I thought it was me that was wrong. Thanks to Nick, Jessica, Carol, Jodi, Jackie and others who made this video clip possible, you have also made it possible for me to let go of some garbage I have been carrying around, this stuff that burdens me…. the load is getting lighter. To go on this journey of transformation, this journey to freedom take much commitment and courage, knowing EFT is always with me and will lead me to the answers within, gives me the strength I need to continue this journey, especially those times when I’m alone.
I saw the videos…and I have to say I cried and tapped my whole way through it…so many of my childhood issues were raised…I have recently been learning EFT level 1 from an amzing teacher and it is helping me so much…I am no longer taking Anti depressants or sleeping pills to help me cope with life…In fact now this butterfly is almost ready to escape from the jar I have been trapped in. I thank the Universe for EFT and I thank you…One more thing, I have been working with different types of energy work for years and EFT is by far the most effective and powerful that I have ever experienced before…
Wow, all your material has been so helpful. Thank you Carol, Jody and Jackie for the EFTing you’ve done and sharing that with us. Seeing Carol in action over a longer time than in the DVD was awesome. As I tapped along I was surprised with what came up for me – thanks, just by watching Jody & Jackie work through their blockages helped bring to light some of my own. So many thanks!
I related alot to their stories. I can see how EFT can benefit me greatly.I went along with them as they did EFT. I could feel a difference.
Thank you for posting this. It is always helpful for me to see or hear Carol at work. It definitely brought up some of my own memories including watching my brother be beaten- maybe now I can release that terror and trauma from my body. Thanks.
Hi, and thanks for that. I really appreciated the longer version (the part with Carol and Jodi, especially). I was working with a friend on some related issues and this gave me an extra boost of targeted persistence and inspiration on how to go about it getting more headway from our sessions. Thanks!
Thank you so much for sharing this video with us all, it made my spine tingle it was so strong, with so much movement and I loved the pace.
Sincere thanks Patricia
Carol Look Is an amazing EFT therapist. She knows what to say when tapping to get you to the root
or core of the issues. It is important that therapist gets to the core.
Carol Look uses her energy to always bring the anxiety of others to the surface. Her gift truly makes her the Master of Masters. I appreciate that she has the person tap on themselves. Watching her work has always taught me something. It has always been said that a Master brings their students to a realization of their skills. Thank you for sharing this video with is all……it does not come to ungrateful hearts.
I really appreciated this video, and the demonstration of wordings and tapping techniques to use while working on any painful subject. Carol’s voice and manner and calming and encouraging. I can really relate to the “perfection” topic– my longstanding issue was “if I follow all of their rules, they will start loving me, they will reward me with their love; but it has to be ALL of their rules. If I break even one rule, then they will continue to withhold their love until I become perfect.”
I really felt a lot of sympathy and empathy for Jodi and Jackie in their pain. I had to cry after hearing the whole video, because I felt very upset about their traumas and about the idea that there are countless others who have experienced or are currently experiencing those sorts of abuse and horrible feelings. Feeling pain on others’ behalf is another topic that I need to “tap” on, because I have a lifelong issue of feeling rotten about others’ pain as well as about MY old pain and disappointments. My “feeling rotten” doesn’t help others’ pain, any more than it helps my own pain.
Thank you for sharing this video clip!
Thank you, Jackie, Jodi and Carol,
The video touched me deeply and raised a number of issues of my own that were so similar. Fear of abandonment, hurt, shame, guilt, a need to help everyone because they were more important than I was, a feeling of being “bad” from being so small which resulted in a need to be a perfectionist and do things “right” or I wouldn’t be loved. The tapping along with you all in the video brought the tears and feelings up once again but after the tapping it feels less intense. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and in so doing helping so many others.
Bless you,
Mary
This video touched on many of my core issues like so many others. I have been having physical problems lately which is quite difficult for me because I have always been very fit and active. In searching for natural ways to heal myself, I came upon a post by Dr. Mercola where he suggested that physical illness could be related to childhood traumas and that they may not manifest for 20-30 years. Being familiar with EFT I was thinking that I should tap on this issue. A few days later I got an email link to this fabulous video. I cried the entire time I tapped along. I realize now I have been trying to be perfect so everyone will love me. I also feel invisible but never realized it. Hearing Jodi and Jackie talk about their childhood issues really helped me understand many of my own issues. Thank you so much for posting this video. It has really helped me!
I never realized so many others were traumatized as children. Tapping continues to help me become a happier, lighter and more joyful person. How wonderful more parents today are loving. Thanks for everything, and please keep up the good work. God Bless you! LR Smith
Just as the winner of raffle, I have had shoulder/arm pain for months(trapezid muscle I think). Nothing I’ve tried has helped so far. This video brought tears to my eyes as soon as it started so some key there but aparently not my problem. Will seek further help. Have heard there are good results using tapping so will continue to explore for myself.
Thank you so much for reminding me how great tapping is. I wish that the video was longer.
Carol you are amazing- You are so swift at finding the key sentences – amazing and inspiring- Thank you
Lesley
thank you for the video.
Carol Look its a great therapist.
I remember my own chilhood and i recognize many issues.
Iam still tapping…
god bless you.
This is a wonderful video! In fact, this is what I was hoping to see on the Try It On Everything movie, so I am very grateful for this video. I have similar issues with abuse, perfectionism and not being acceptable. Through my life I’ve been living for everyone else and denying myself to the point where I really don’t know who I am. I have also been completely abandoned by everyone in my family due to a parent using me as their scapegoat. This video greatly helped me to realize the personalities in my family and how I became the unwanted one. It’s brought peace seeing that there really was/is nothing I could have done that would have been good enough for them. I can now see that it wasn’t about me and my not being good enough or acceptable. It was about a parent placing their guilt on me and hiding behind me so that they didn’t have to face who they were. This pattern became an imprint for my family to live by. Tapping through with this video has been so helpful in not only clearing some of these issues, but in bringing others up that I didn’t realize were there. I “love” EFT and how profound it is. Nick and Jessica, thank you very much for this wonderful video and for the continued gifts that you give to all of us.
Many Blessings,
Roze
I have just recently been introduced to tapping by my mom. I feel quite positive about it’s benefits and would like to learn more. I have definitely got some work to do and am just starting to access where I’ve been storing the emotions and more than that, accessing what the emotions are, primarily fear. At the moment, I’m feeling a little overwhelmed as to where to start. I believe that so much of it stems from my mom being sick and gone in the hospital (emotional issues) and even when she came home, she was unavailable emotionally and even physically because she was sedated much of the time and slept a fair bit……I took on the role of mom with my younger siblings. I’ve experience pain in my shoulders and neck off and on for years and I’ve also battled with my digestion as well. I really want to put these issues to rest. I want to live my life without the pain and the trauma of my unstable health……..I would love to have some feedback on how to break it all down into a manageable progression.
So wonderful! Thanks to Carol for her incredible work, and thanks to Jodi & Jackie for their generosity and courage for sharing their healing with us. Though my father was not as violent as theirs, he did hurt my brothers many times as I witnessed. Using alcohol can be so destructive. Many tears and many memories were brought up by this video and some relief has already been found. Think I’ll go tap again with these sessions!
Absolutely fantastic. To see it in action really explains what we are supposed to be doing. There are probably thousands of women out their that feel they have to perfect at everything, so a powerful subject for many. It has really helped me . Thank you Thank you , would love to see more x
Thank you so very very much to Jackie, Jodi and Carol
This was incredible for me to watch and led to me tapping on myself for some time afterwards. It was an experience I shall never forget and led me into an area of my childhood I had not realised had affected me so much. Thank you again
Love and light
Carol xxx
Carol and staff,
This was very enlightening. Although I did not come from a physically abusive family, it was still dysfunctional. I am going through some health issues and am going to get serious about using tapping to help me heal.
Thank you
Thank you so much. I have the original DVD of “Try It On Everything”, and really enjoyed it. I like EFT and have found it to be very helpful. Some of my frustration lies in not feeling comfortable in knowing how to establish some of my own set-up phrases, and the words to continue to say throughout the session. “Perfectionism”? Watching this video with Jackie and Jodie was interesting. What came up for me was not being able to speak “my truth” to a parent without being scolded or slapped. Something else came up from years ago when I was at a weekend retreat that a psychologist that I was seeing put together. I was put in a situation that I didn’t know how to handle at the time, and someone expressed their discomfort. Instead of receiving guidance on where or whom my frustration was really coming from, or directed towards I was publicly humiliated and put down, and pretty much ostracized from the group the rest of the weekend. During this clip I was briefly able to see how this experience has played a huge part in my fear of being noticed, and in some other ways not being noticed, heard, or good enough. Wow, a lot seems to be coming up in the last few weeks showing me that I have yet another layer or layers of “stuff” wanting to be released and healed!! Again, thank you.
Thank you so much.This video is an aha for me! Especially Jackie who witnessed her brothers being beaten. I, too, as a young child, witnessed my father beating my mother. And like, Jodi, I tried to be good so he wouldn’t beat me. But I couldn’t protect my mother, no matter what I did.
Thank you Carol, this video open many doors to my past.
i´ll work on them
Thank you for sharing this deeply emotional session. I share many of the issues that were blocking Jodi and Jackie. I’ve listened to and tapped along with this video several times this morning and I’m starting to feel lighter. I’m beginning to understand how events in my childhood have influenced my adult behaviors and emotions. Opening these emotional wounds and memories is profoundly painful and absolutely terrifying, but I feel the necessity. I repeatedly set myself up for failure and resort to the same unsuccessful tactics. Breaking long ingrained patterns is my challenge. My sincerest and deepest thanks to Jodi and Jackie for their courage, and also to Carol for sharing her skills.
She (Jodie?) said that her father always paid attention to her sister, although her sister was not happy with the attention. The first thing that popped into my head was that she should ask her sister if she was being abuse by her father and that was the reason for both reactions.
I loved this video. It is truly amazing that what we experience as children stays with us for sooo long. I feel that all our social ‘norms’ i.e. putting on a brave face, getting knocked down and getting back on the horse etc are all very well but we are all such sensitive beings that we can’t just ‘move on and forget it’. We are such sentient creatures that we do ourselves a great service when we recognise this and accept ourselves as did Jackie and Jodi. I thank them for their bravery in confronting themselves and showing us that we are all fragile souls trying to find our way. With EFT maybe we can begin our journey to inner peace.
I have been reading about EFT but had not had much success–until I watched this video. Jackie and Jodi are so brave to have decided to let everyone “look in on” their most private lives. And Carol is awesome. This video brought up so many issues for me that I cannot thank you enough. Wonderful. Blessings to you all.
I had heard about EFT but was not quite sure how to use it. After watching this very moving video, it will become a big part of my life. I have had issues with my relationship with my Mom for years and want to use EFT to relieve myself of the burden and guilt I carry. I will definitely recommend EFT to everyone. Thanks for sharing this and opening a whole new way to deal with past hurts that doesn’t involve drugs being shoved at us.
Thanks for sharing this demonstration tape. I found it helpful for myself. It now opens up possibilities to pursue for tapping on issues on self and clients.
Thanks to the courage of the clients.
the video was very helpful. it brought up memories of the abuse i’d witnessed and I realised that i play the martyr to protect others. Thank you to all involved for bringing eft to so many who have had difficult lives
Excellent video thankyou. Childhood a not so nice time for me with negative and emotionally distant Parents who never validated me or met my needs. Was no violence in my childhood I just felt like I was abandoned and now I feel a whole lot better. Thankyou so much. Tapping is the best. From a grateful lady in New Zealand.
Thank you all for sharing this video. So much of it applies to me and that was very beneficial. Also, I was paying extra attention to you Carol and there were several good reminders for me as a practitioner. Thanks to Jackie and Jodi for being willing to become so visible (funny, that!)
Wow – very powerful. First time I watched and tapped and cried all the way through. Second time, I felt calm through most of the tapping, although another brief flood of emotion came up during the latter half of the video. I have done a lot of tapping on childhood abuse issues and felt I’d cleared most of it, but discovered new aspects triggered by Carol’s phrasing that were very deeply rooted and after going through the video twice I feel I’ve released so much more and feel so much lighter. I love EFT. And thank you all – Carol, Jodie, Jackie and the TryItOnEverything team for making this available.
Hello
I love, love, love EFT! It has literally changed my life abd I have been so blessed to have found Gary Craig, Carol Look, Rue Hass, Rebecca Marina, Stephen and Beth Daniels etc.
Carol Look is usual brilliant self. I’ve had the opportunity to work with her on the phone and it’s always a pleasure.
Kuddos to Jackie and JOdi (and all others in video’s and telconferences) for being willing to be vulnerable and share the most personal of information and taking responsibility for their lives.
Thanks so much
Lynn
Watching that masterful tapping was so inspiring. Thank you so much Jodi and Jackie for being so open and vulnerable so we could learn from Carol’s
unique approach to EFT. Gratefully, Karen
Thank you for sharing this powerful video I was tapping along with the audience although I am not a perfectionist I do tend to hide my emotions so well that I am not aware I have them and live a small life.
Yet some things shifted in my body. On Sunday I was only aware of a slight tingling in my hand during a rebirth with a group of Raiki healers who managed to release the turmoil of birth & past lives.
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Thancks a lot for this video. It’s very useful and much better than the only audio conference of the World Summit (specially for people who is not english mother lenguage). Very interesting the Carol’s way to lead the EFT session.
I hope you’ll continue offering to everybody this wonderfull oportunity to understand better the great results that EFT could bring. Friendly to all.
Thanks to Carol, Jodi and Jackie for this insightful video. I can see my own need for perfection and safety and how that keeps me small. I am an aspiring musician, but have felt that I could never be good enough to perform, even for family and friends. Maybe this example can help me get beyond that.
Thankyou Carol, Jodie and Jackie, the latter 2 for allowing your personal histories to be seen, heard and used so that all of us who have had very similar life experiences can benefit. Carol you have an amazing gift which you use with great compassion, empathy and skill. This video has been of tremendous benefit to myself and judging by all the posts, to many others as well. Thankyou Nick and Jessica for this site and for all you and your colleagues are doing to globally broadcast the merits, benefits and joys of EFT and tapping. My medical doctor, who trained with Steve Wells and Dr David Lake, here in Sydney, Australia, uses EFT, and EMDR, extensively in his psychotherapy practice. I have had multiple sensitivities to prescription medicines, since 2005, and ONLY EFT and EMDR has given me major life changing relief. I love tapping because it’s yet another way I can accept responsibility for myself, life, health etc. This is truly the medicine of now and the future. I love using it for family and friends and referring people to my favourite sites on the internet. Peace be with you all. Pipiana
Carol is my EFT hero! Knows exactly where the core issue is and most important of all, she explains beautifully and clearly what she wants. I want to be like her when I grow up! Thanks Nick and Jessica for such wonderful gifts. God Bless you!
This is a great video. I just worked with a client yesterday with similar issues. This video was wonderful validation for the work I did, and the strides that were made by my client. Thank you so much. I will look forward to the next one!
This was a great video clip. The best because it showed how to tell the story, test the level, tap and talk, take a breath, tell story, again and measure the level to see if it is lower.
I did the tapping along w/ the two ladies and I got huge emotional responses! Since I tapped I feel better and will tap on my own story, daily. Thanks ladies for your bravery. It was awesome; you’ve helped hundreds of people w/similar stories and issues. Thank you.
leslee
Just a note about the Margaret Lynch interview…I have been working on my garbage removal in all areas of my brain…however it did not occur to me that I am holding on to the fact that a lot of people owe me large sums of money for my work.Some how it gives me a reason to not have enough that is some one else’s fault and not my own!
this was amazing for me to recognize…
after watching your great vidio i can now understand why so many things happen to us and how our lives are shaped by our miss guided parents and events that happen to us and our not having information to deal with these issues as they come at us in life.Thank you for caring enough to help.
This video is great! Just today at work my supervisor told me that my problem is that I try to be perfect so my boss won’t get mad at me. We’ll I tapped on that on the way home, and then right along with the video. Of course I forgot to access how true this was in the beginning. Was likely at 10, feels like a 2. Thank you soooo much!
Carol is very confident and presents the tapping statements and questions in a logical and helpful progression. Her assistance facilitates the video clients to be able to deeply focus on their inner levels rather than having to think about the question/statement sequence.
I sense, Carol and Tapping guides add a deeper healing dimension.
I am brand new to tapping and look forward to healing my mind, body and spirit; creating and embracing
abundance on all levels of my life and sharing with tapping with others!!
Thank you for the video clip. This was powerful to witness, to tap along with. I honour the compassion of the facilitator, and the courage to go into these issues and desire for healing the inner child of the two participant. You have shown the way out so beautifully. Thank you.
I can still feel layers falling away, even though the video finished a little while ago. What an amazing process!
Thank you all soooo much!! I have been using tapping along with other modalities. Whenever I tap I know I am releasing because I burp. I burped all thru the video and am still burping. Thanks again.
I was lucky enough to work with Carol Look during her 3-day workshop in Ireland in May this year. We worked on chronic pain and limited range of movement in my neck and shoulders which I have had for over 5 years.
The day after the EFT session on stage, Carol invited the volunteers to come back up and see if there was any improvement in their issues or physical pain. To my surprise my physical movement was much freer and much of the inflammation seemed to have reduced in the joints adn the pain was noticeably less.
I continued to tap at home on the core issues Carol had helped me to identify and I’m glad to say that my shoulders and neck have been almost pain free for about 2 months. I found a steady improvement over about 4-6 weeks after the session with Carol.
EFT really is a wonderful technique and the beauty of it is that it can be used for self help as well as with a therapist.
Let’s all keep on Tapping!
Thanks Carol and Jessica, for making this available to us.
Thank you so much for this video!
It really touches an issue.
Would it be possible to publish the Tapping rounds in written form somewhere?
As a foreigner it is hard to understand when all the people speak in chorus.
Thanks for your work!
Thank you ,thank you .thank you !!!!!
thank you for publishing this. I cried (and tapped) all the way through.
It inspired me to go away and tap and deal with my own incidents on this subject, seeing how much relief these two brave women got from dealing with theirs.
Being a perfectionist is hard work, always embarrassing and humiliating and worrying that one of my little slips of non perfectionism will be held up for all to see with a ”think you’re perfectionist do you? just look at this, just look at it, it’s SLOPPY, it’s not perfect, actually it’s NOWHERE NEAR PERFECT!!!!!”
People make mistakes, and I want to be able to make them too without it being such a big deal. I never wanted to be the always responsible one, but that’s the role I always end up with, usually ‘cos everyone else has left… I’m off tapping!
Big hugs to Jackie and Jodi and anyone else dealing with these issues.
Late thanks for this personal and touching piece of work. I worked with you fron every angle I could, and did so for my beated brother and my beating father… and my watching mother. As a therapist I search for every little light in what was incomprehensible as a child, for me and for others… and also for the adult sorrounding every child.
I’ll begin a second master on monday, and so, thanks fro you all, I’ll start as a refreshed myself, less perfectionist and less dmanding on others. So, I’ll enjoy the experience a lots more.
Thank you Jackie, Jody, and Carol. This was something I could relate to in a modified way (feeling the need for perfectionism since childhood/ being overly responsible, etc.)…so I tapped along with it and related to some statements. Thanks for your courage in sharing these more extreme circumstances with us all and giving us help and hope that EFT really is a valid healing tool.
Thanks to all of you.I could relate to this and tapped along. It was interesting to learn that thinking you had to be perfect or do something perfectly was a way of punishing yourself,or be perfect was a way of protecting yourself.We can learn so much from these shared Video’s they are great.
great footage very inlightening thank you
Dear Nick and Jessica and Carol,
Thank you so much for this video.
It really touched me, as I grew up with the fear of abandon, raised by a not loving mother. However perfect I was, it was never enough for her. I was always first of my class and had very good marks, but never received from her any compliments, even when I made successful university studies. When I was a kid, I offered to her from school every year a mother’s day present made by myself, she not really looked at it, and put it in a cupboard where it stayed with the previous ones. It was very painfull for me.
Today, I am not at my true place in the society, I could be “number two” in an ambassy with my level, but I am not, I am at home for ten years and I live from social help. It is like if being myself at my true level would offence my mother because I feel her jealousy against me.
I have taped with Carol looking at her video tonight, and I will go on taping during the next days, and I am sure it will break a block inside me, and help me to feel more happy and most of all, to allow myself to be myself at my true level, and to stop abandonning myself to please other people, thinking that if I don’t do that, they will abandon me.
Thank you so much. If you make other taping programs about this topic, please send it to me.
God bless you !
Natacha
hi- i have brren procrastinating about a website-and my health and living my life to its fullest- living my lifes purpose-and haveing great health- does this help with helath- i have tried almost everything- alternative and otherwise-this has financially bankrupted me-in all ways- thanks for your help-colette
Carol, You are truly amazing. You make this look so effortless. I love how you are able to get to the heart of the matter very quickly with both of these women. I am hoping to be able to use some of your techniques with myself.
Thank you,
Carol, This video is great, very powerful. I use other CD’s and DVD’s of yours because it works so well for me. I’ve been wanting to get at more of the old deep stuff from my childhood that holds me back and this definitely
did it! My Dad was very abusive and I tried to be good to be hit less, be invisible, hid under the bed etc. He hit and beat my brother. Very easy to borrow benefits on this. Thanks to Jackie and Jodi for getting up there.
Thanks so much!
Laurie
i want to tell these two women that i admire them SO MUCH for doing this so publicky!!! i have wanted to do eft but for some reason i cannot take the time todo it. i hope this will motivmate me.
Being brought up in the 40s and 50s I remember the beating my brother,age 9,got for giving (my sister who was about 3 years old at the time) a haircut, he only cut it on one side.My father returning home from a night out with my Mom, spanked him several times and kicked him slidding across the linolium floor. We were so scared we would get some of the same, but lucked out. No abuse laws in those days at least not where I lived.Anyway beatings were not often and were rare.My brother didn’t get hurt from this but didn’t do it again either.
I have not thought of this incident in such a long time that I forgot about it til now.
Yes I tapped the emotion down to a “0″. Thank you the video.
Tapping is good and should be part of a daily routine for everyone.
This message made me realise how much I wanted my stepdad to love me and accept me and include me in family outings and the violent breakup – fighting – between him and my mother. This session has cleared up the rest of that garbage that I’ve been working on for a while. Thank you Carol for leading up!
Thank you for providing this inspiring video. Tapping along definitely provides benefits! For those experiencing shoulder pain I have the following possible help: I one morning woke up with a “6″ level shoulder and upper arm pain that would just not go away completely with the direct “even though I have this painful shoulder…” type approach. It did decrease with that approach but not by much. I worked on it for weeks until I referred to Louis Hay’s book “Heal Your Body” wherein she states that shoulder pain is often related to the burdens one is carrying in their life. I took that tack and tapped on the “even though I am carrying all of these unending burdens in my life..” etc. and becoming more specific with what burdens there were as they ‘popped up’ in my mind while tapping. I am happy to report that I had 100% success with this problem after probably twenty or so rounds of tapping. So, you might consider the “burdens you are carrying” and the “problems that you cannot ‘get your arms around’”. I have since found that referring to Louis Hay’s book gives me a great starting point on pain issues. Wishing you good luck! Thanks again for the wonderful video. I love watching Carol Look!
Thank you Carol. I learned so much from you. I have been doing eft for 6 months and improved my life down to 3. I was very stresfull and I have hair loss problem for such along time (rating 10). Then my friend introduced me with eft. Since then, I did my tapping by my self and I managed to get my hair loss down to 7. Sometimes I feel that I am stuck, so I decided to see sycologist every week, as well as tapping everyday at home. Good news that my hair loss is now down to 4. By listening from your video, I learned so much how you put the wording and it does work for me. It is very powerfull tool to have.
i dont have website but iam starting a business and i need to to talk to people i like to know more about this tapping soo i can get more people in this business so i can make money but i need to talk to people and i just dont know how to do this can you help me in any way
This interview was like listening to a family video. My brothers and sisters were traumitised during our childhood in the same way. I am now using tapping to work on my issues and also sharing this technique with family. My daughyer is resistant to using it so I tap daily for her and my grandson. I still find more time for others and feel that they are more important. I would like to make more time for my own tapping but I feel selfish. Thank you so much for your blessings!
This was very helpful. Where would you direct those that are pretty new to EFT to some good review of the tapping technology? Thanks!
Carol Look is always a joy to watch and learn from as she works with people. The use of her phrasing and techniques has cleared many issues for myself, and has enhanced my skills as a practitioner. It’s important to clear those limiting core beliefs that we formed about ourselves as children to enable us to reach our full potential as adults. Carol’s work shows how effective EFT and tapping is in clearing those limiting core beliefs.
Thank you so much for this powerful video. I learn so much each time I watch Carol. I tapped along with the video, and cleared more aspects of past trauma. As a wellness consultant and holistic nutritionist, I teach my clients EFT and share the abundant resources available to all. I so appreciate this community.
Hi There, I couldn’t get the video to play. After trying several times I had to give up. I really wanted to see it as I saw 5 min on You tube. Let me Know if there is another way I can get to it. Thank You – Dennis
I love being able to tap along while watching EFT videos, and this video really resonated with me, and I can totally identify with these women, having lived with anxiety and fear, believing I had to be perfect to be accepted or loved, sabotaging myself in order to be safe, yet getting in unhealthy relationships because I felt unworthy. These videos motivate me to continue using EFT. Thanks so much!
That was great!
It was great to listen the video make you realize how many block you build your self in to a happiness